Thursday, May 28, 2009

Old pics--just for fun

This is my mom at about 6 months pregnant with me.
Family pic 1982

Baby Laura

Baby Laura being fed formula by Uncle Rick. Thanks Mom, I could have been a genius if you had breastfed.. :)

Mike gazing lovingly at the best little sister in the whole world

Mom, Mike and baby Laura

Saturday, May 23, 2009

one day shy of 34 weeks




i had a request for new belly photo so here ya go---kinda chopped off my head. oops!

Monday, May 18, 2009

33 weeks

We have made it to 33 weeks (and one day!) and baby is still hanging in there. Not many contractions and otherwise doing well. Just hanging out. I have written thank you notes from baby shower, organized all my addresses, sent out change of address notices, read 3 books, watched endless hours of tv/movies. my plans for the days ahead....organize recipes, take ethics course required for PT continuing education, watch more tv/movies, read more books, and hold this baby in a little longer.
this is the sonogram pic from 18-19 weeks. they did a sonogram while i was at the hospital, but we couldnt see his face because his head was already too low. so this will have to do for now. isnt he cute?

Sunday, May 17, 2009

New house: pre-furniture

Welcome!
Entry hall, looking at the front door. Hallway to nursery and guest room is the archway to the right of the front door. Coat closet on the left. Exciting stuff... Living room. Entry hall is the arch on the left.Looking out the windows of the living room onto the covered patio.Looking into kitchen from living room.
Breakfast "nook"
back door onto covered patio
Kitchen
Looking from living room into mudroom. small bench on the right (see next pic). utility room is the door in front. Door on the left goes out to the garage.
small utility room.
Den
master bedroom. my favorite thing about this house is all the windows...big big windows! I am sure i will dislike them when it comes time to clean them all....
doors into master bath. andy is standing in the closet. the other door is to the "water closet" or potty closet.
master bath with TALL vanity. bathtub that i can't use until after the baby :( dr's orders.
shower
this photo doesnt do it justice. this is my 2nd favorite thing about this house. BIG master closet. lots of room for lots of shoes!
guest room. love the windows. guest/hall/2nd bathroom
Nurserygarage
so i know that lots of these photos dont really show you anything about the room. it is hard to photograph an empty room. once the house is slightly more organized i will take new photos, but this gives you a general idea. come visit!

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Things don't always go as planned...(warning: very LONG post)

The last few weeks have felt like a crazy blur. I will attempt to recap all the happenings, but I am bound to miss some things. Weekends in April were filled up with baby showers for friends, packing our stuff and getting out of the house so our realtor could hold open houses--Still no luck selling the house, by the way.

near the end of April I went with the girls from work to a "night of indulgence" at a local salon. It was lots of fun though some of the treatments left a lot to be desired for us. Basically you go to 5 different "stations", each lasting maybe 10-15 minutes: 1. facial, 2. foot massage, 3. paraffin wax and hand massage, 4. scalp massage and hair shampoo, 5. back massage. All of mine were great, except the back massage. It was just maybe a 10 minute massage in a massage chair, but the guy that did my massage had a runny nose so he was sniffling the whole time and occasionally one of his hands would break contact with my back for about 5 seconds and I can only imagine that it was so it could make contact with his snotty nose, then return to my back. It made it a little difficult to really relax and enjoy the massage. The girls used that night as a baby shower for me as well, so holly made her delicious chocolate cake and they all chipped in and bought us our pack n' play. woohoo!
The next week was crazy. I had a doctor's appt on Tuesday and everything was going great. No contractions, no aches, no problems. The doctor said I was doing great---measuring right on, weight gain looked good, no other problems with bloodwork or urine. After that Andy and I went to our closing to sign the paperwork on our new house. We officially became the proud owners of 2 homes. (this was NOT the timing I was hoping for.)
When I woke up Wednesday I was having some discomfort and I just blamed it on being pregnant and the baby getting bigger. My mom and grandma came to OKC Wednesday night to help the next few days with painting the nursery, packing, etc. so we went to Lowes to pick out paint. Thursday morning I woke up feeling a little better but still uncomfortable with a little bit of a backache. I called the doctors office and spoke to the nurse (Dr. was out of town). She said she thought I might have a urinary tract infection and had me come in to give her a urine specimen and gave me a rx for antibiotics to take over the weekend. Andy and I ran some errands Thursday, bought a new refrigerator, got all our blinds cut for the new house, etc. My mom, grandma and aunt were at our new house painting the nursery (which turned out GREAT!--I will post pictures later). When we finally sat down that evening I realized that my back pain was coming and going at regular intervals (about 20 seconds at a time, every 7-8 minutes.) Since I have never been pregnant before and really have no idea what I am doing :) I just assumed I had been up and around too much and figured if I drank plenty of water and got some rest things would settle down. I did call the answering service that evening and spoke to the doctor on call who suggested drinking water, relaxing and then going to the hospital if the pain didnt stop. It was late at that point so I showered and went to bed. I was able to fall asleep and stay asleep without any problems.
I woke up Friday morning and realized the pain in my back had gotten more intense but was still coming on every 7 minutes. I got up and used the restroom and (sorry if too much info for you) realized that I was bleeding. PANIC.....I woke andy up and as he was getting dressed I called the doctor. Spoke to the nurse---doctor out of town, remember--and she sent me to the hospital. Got to Mercy around 9am. hooked up to monitor for fetal heartbeat and to monitor contractions. Baby's heartbeat was great, praise the Lord! I was able to relax a little at that point. I was having contractions every 6 minutes now. They checked me out and found that I was in preterm labor--I was just shy of 31 weeks at that point. I was between 70-90% effaced and between 1 and 2 cm dilated. They gave me a shot of Terbutaline to stop the contractions and admitted me to the hospital. I stayed from Friday morning to Sunday evening. My contractions stopped Friday afternoon after taking terbutaline orally every 6 hours and I was given 2 injections of corticosteroids to help the baby's lungs develop more quickly, in case he decided he really wanted to come early. I was discharged Sunday evening after another exam showing no change in effacement or dilation since Friday and was given orders to stay on strict bedrest only getting up to use the restroom and to take a 5 minute shower each day.
Now, we were scheduled to move into our new house on Saturday. Uhaul was rented and friends had been recruited to help, but our plan was basically busted since I couldnt be involved at all and Andy wanted to be at the hospital with me to talk with the doctor. Let me just say...we have been blessed with the most AMAZING friends and family. They stepped up and moved us in without us being there. Andy was able to help out a little here and there, but my mom and grandma, Justin, Kelli, Marcus, Matt, Daniel, Dane, Bum, Kylie, Jon-Michael are life-savers and I cant even begin to tell them how grateful I am for their help!! (sorry if i forgot anyone!) We were moved in by the time I was discharged on Sunday and I was able to come home to a surprisingly organized new home. My mom hung around a few days to help cook, unpack, organize, etc which was a great help! Friends and church family have brought us great food and I have gotten lots of encouraging messages, emails, visits and phone calls as well. What have I learned through this so far?......1. God is good. He has provided. While I do not always understand His timing, He is in control and I can trust Him. If our house had already been sold and we were on a deadline to move out, this would have been a disaster. As it is, we still have some excess furniture at the old house as well as nearly all of andy's garage stuff and his monte carlo. It has been much easier knowing that we have some time to organize what we already have here before we have a totally evacuate the other house. 2. We are blessed with wonderful, amazing, unbelievably great friends and family. Seriously. 3. I have the greatest husband in the world. He has been strong, comforting, kind, helpful and wonderful. He basically has to make my food, clean my dishes, refill my water, let the dogs out, let the dogs in, unpack, organize the house, PLUS go to work and he has done all of this without a single negative word. I couldn't have made it through this without him.
We don't really know what to expect now. This baby could theoretically come any day now, but we are happy knowing that contractions are basically stopped at this point (still taking med to keep them controlled). We are now at 32 weeks and we know that every day we make it means a bigger, stronger and healthier baby. I see my doctor on Tuesday and we will discuss the overall plan I guess. I am most likely on bed rest until delivery, which is difficult for me, but we will do what we have to do. We can't wait to meet this little guy and for you all to meet him too, but we are hoping we wont see him for another 5-6 weeks :) We appreciate all your prayers!

I will post some pictures of the new house (pre-furniture) this week and when I can talk andy into taking some pictures of the house with furniture in it I will get those posted too.

Thursday, April 16, 2009

getting bigger

baby is growing! and kicking like crazy!

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Redneck Vacation

Last weekend, Andy and I went to Dallas/Ft. Worth with our friends Justin and Kelli. We drove down on Thursday night and stayed with Justin's mom and stepdad. We slept in on Friday, went for lunch at Genghis Grill and then headed to Speedzone. Since Kelli and I are both pregnant, we couldnt drive the go karts but we had a great time watching the boys. They drove the slick track several times while they waited for the drag cars to open (they were being repaired). The slick track was apparently pretty tricky to navigate and at each turn nearly 75% of the cars would fishtail/drift/completely spin out around the corner.
andy starting the racejustin making around a corner without spinning out
andy making it around the corner with only a little troublejustin and andy both heading the WRONG way on the track.

they had so much fun. i think they drove this track 4 times...?

the drag racing track FINALLY opened. I am not sure how fast they actually went, but they said they had 350 horsepower.
Friday evening, we met some of the Jesters local friends for dinner at Uncle Julio's--mexican food. Great salsa--ate way too much. Saturday, Andy and Justin got up early and went to Top Golf. It is a driving range where you aim at targets. Each person has golf balls with a chip in them so they keep track of the points you score depending on how close you are to the target. Apparently it was great fun because they stayed for 5 hours. Kelli and I slept in a little later and went to IKEA. I bought some curtains for the new house, cutting board, and dish towels. I just love walking around IKEA. If I had unlimited time and $$ I would have needed to rent a trailer to get all the stuff I wanted home. We may have to make another trip once we move so I can get some more of their great LOOOONNGGG curtains for our tall windows. After IKEA, Kelli and I went to the mall to grab some lunch and then get a pedicure. It had been over a year since I had a pedicure and I forgot how great it felt. Since it is getting more difficult to reach my feet, I think I will need to get at least one or two more pedicures before the baby comes! Then we went back to the house and sat around on the couch for awhile, watched a movie, and then decided we would head out for dinner. We went to Babe's, a great chicken place. They serve all their sides family style and then you order your main dish--chicken strips, fried chicken, chicken fried steak, etc. This was Saturday night and a pretty popular place. We were told the wait would be 55-80 minutes!!! It was a beautiful evening and we didnt really have anything else going on, so we waited about 45 minutes and then they called our name! It was yummy but, yet again, we all ate wayyyyy too much and then got dessert. It was painful walking back to the car.Sunday morning we packed up, loaded the car and headed to Texas motor speedway!! This was the main reason for the trip and the reason I called this our redneck vacation. We went to the NASCAR race. We allowed ourselves plenty of time to get to the track since 250000 people were going to be at the race. It only took us about an hour to get to the track and get parked (much less time than we expected) so we had a lot of time to walk around and take in all the redneck culture. It was pretty chilly and windy that morning!Once we got to our seats we warmed up quickly. We were in the sun, but it was only 60 degrees. I was afraid I was going to fry being as pale as I am, but 2 coats of SPF 60 served me well :) only a slight sunburn where my hair was parted. white trash pregnant nascar fan picture. I considered wearing a wife-beater and holding a koozie with a beer for this photo, but decided against it. ha. i am not sure what face I am making in this pic....maybe I did have a few beers???


the other white trash pregnant nascar fan and her hubby

here is a short video of one of the restarts after a caution. it gives you a little taste of how LOUD and how FAST these cars are. You just can't understand by watching it on TV. It was really a lot of fun. It was amazing to hear all the cars start up and then rev up as they start the race. The middle part of the race was a little boring because there were no wrecks and I really dont follow nascar enough to know about all the drivers. The end of the race was exciting though because it was a pretty close finish and our favorite driver, Jeff Gordon, won! and just FYI, I was curious how the baby would handle the loud cars....but I think he just slept the whole time. I didnt feel him more than a couple times during the whole race. Kelli said she didnt feel her little girl move much either. maybe nascar is a soothing sound for babies....? It took us about another hour to hour and a half to get out of the parking lot and on the road toward oklahoma. We got home and picked up the dogs then headed to bed so we could work the next morning. boo. we had a REALLY great time and didnt want the vacation to end! We are already talking about a repeat trip.